Saturday, March 7, 2020


My son, Corban, got married last weekend. Here is the video of his wedding :)

Saturday, December 14, 2019

You can change world!

The first part of this post I actually wrote a YEAR ago. For some reason it stayed in "draft" status and I never posted it. This morning I got on here to post something and saw this in the draft box; quite fitting to what I wanted to say! So, here is what I wrote a year ago:

You can change the world! Or at least your little corner of it! How? Well ... recently I saw this quote, though I'm not sure who first said it. It went something like this:

You can change the world by your example, not by your opinion.

We are all so full of opinions - or at least I know I am! Talk is cheap, and actions speak so much louder than words. What do my actions say about me? What do your actions say about you? 

The older I get the more and more I realize how this life really is a vapor. Dust in the wind. Our time here on this earth is so short - are we making the most of it? 

A few weeks ago I had the unfortunate opportunity to speak with the meanest receptionist I've ever encountered. She was mean with her first words - long before I even had a chance to speak. It took so much effort and energy for me to keep my words, tone of voice, and thoughts toward her good while in the heat of the moment. Two things happened after our "conversation" ended. 

1. I burst out in sobs like a child that just had their mother die [or something like that]. Just being honest here - yes, I was THAT shook up!! 

2. I prayed for her. The example she put forth was so poor I could not help but wonder what kind of personal struggles she must be facing right now. Maybe SHE was the "child that just lost her mother"?! Maybe something was wrong with one of her children? I don't know. There are a million "maybes" I could think of, but whatever the case, she must have been hurting.

Before we can change the world by our good example, we must first have a good heart and a good attitude. We must reflect the heart of our Messiah.


And now the rest of the story. :)
Recently I've been thinking a lot about purpose. We all have a purpose, but some times the noise of life gets in the way. Distractions. Diversions. Doubts. Fears. Or even happy things! What is my purpose RIGHT NOW? What should I be busy doing? What is your purpose RIGHT NOW? What should you be busy doing?

We all have one thing in common: we all know we should be 'brightening the corner where we are', just like I shared above. Once our hearts are in the right place, we can begin to see what is important. We might be thinking we "should be" doing this or that, but should we? Usually this happens when we start comparing ourselves with others and trying to walk as they are walking. We are each unique and our walks should reflect that uniqueness.

A fellow Sister might have time to go to the nursing home or visit an elderly neighbor regularly. That's her walk and her season. We should not feel pressured to do what she is doing - what should I / YOU be doing? Maybe your season is staying home, taking care of the children and supporting your husband? If so, do not feel bad if you cannot make it to the nursing home regularly! Do you get what I'm saying? YOU be the best you can be right where you are! Make your home a haven of peace and rest for all who enter.

I find it helpful to write a reminder of my purpose in my bullet journal. It might seem a little silly to some, but it helps me to keep my focus on the right place when my mind begins to drift.

Last week David preached about CHOICES; it all begins with a choice. That one, simple, seemingly small choice can set you down the wrong path ... OR of course help you along the right path. He also talked about choosing to be happy. Our attitude in daily life has a great impact on ourselves and others. When we are reflecting our Messiah, we are instruments of his love, mercy, kindness, compassion, and so on. It's hard to make the wrong choice when we are in that state of mind!

Like I said above (a year ago), life really is a vapor. We are here today and (potentially) gone tomorrow. Are we truly living our days to the glory of God? Are we honestly putting God and others first in our lives? Are we looking at our lives and honestly considering what we SHOULD be doing ... and DOING IT?

Sunday, June 16, 2019

"Be strong!"

An acquaintance of mine is going through a difficult time and my natural response was, "Be strong!" Even though it was from the heart, it still made me stop and think about how she might have took that (because I really do think the phrase, be strong, is easily taken the wrong way).

Strength is not synonymous with 'having it all together'!! True strength is pressing on even when you are falling apart!

Monday, December 10, 2018


Just thinking about mercy and thought, "Why not post on my blog?" It's been a while. Almost a year. I'm still here though!!


Those who are merciful will receive mercy in return.
Those who are not merciful will be judged by the Lord without mercy; he is merciful and expects us to be like him.
Mercy is one of the gifts mentioned in Romans 12 - and we are supposed to show it with cheerfulness.

Thinking on all of these things over the last several weeks ... months ... years ... this morning I was listening to Luke, and in chapter 10 we have the account of the sneaky lawyer who asked the Messiah what he needed to do to inherit eternal life. Christ responded with the question, "What does the law say?" Of course the lawyer knew and responded correctly:

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength, and love your neighbor as yourself. 

This is nothing new; God has always required this of man, and Christ confirms it: "Do this and you will live." Simple. Or is it? Well, it is if your heart is right!!! But, the lawyer's heart was not right. He was trying to justify himself or find some way out or something. His response, "Who is my neighbor?" proves it.

So, who is our neighbor? Christ gives us a very clear example: our neighbors are not just those people we know and care for, they are even strangers and/or enemies.

Christ asks the lawyer point blank: "Which of these 3 men do you think was a neighbor to the stranger?" The priest and the Levite left him in the ditch to die. These men who are supposed to be examples of God and fulfilling God's work here on earth were actually just hypocrites. I'm guessing their followers did not see this though. The Samaritan - a supposed enemy - came by, saw him, cleaned him up, took him to shelter, stayed with him all night, paid the keeper in advance the amount he thought would cover it, but then said he'd pay anything lacking upon his return. 

So who was the true neighbor to the stranger? The lawyer responded, "HE WHO SHOWED MERCY ON HIM." You can't hide from that truth. It's right there for all to see ... even the lawyer saw it and had no way around it. Christ returned, "YES - GO AND DO THE SAME."

There you have it. The key to eternal life: be merciful even as our Father in heaven is merciful. This is nothing you can fake or manufacture. It comes straight out of a pure heart that loves the Lord and wants to do what pleases him.

Monday, January 8, 2018

Forty years: Number eleven

"Forty Years Series" thought number eleven ... one word ...
This is a relatively new word to me, but it really sums up what I have experienced on my walk with the Lord thus far. First, the definition:

"The amalgamation, or attempted amalgamation, of different religions, cultures, or schools of thought."

Having just recently come off of the holiday season (christmas and hanukkah), this word/thought has been in my mind quite often. Christianity is absolutely steeped in 'syncretism'. How often does the bible say as plain as day something like "learn NOT the way of the nations"? Many times. We must examine ourselves and ask ourselves why we are doing what we are doing. Is it based on biblical truth, or is it based on the tradition of men? I'll leave that up to the reader to decide. I'm just saying, we must be careful. Of all the warnings in the scripture, this one seems to be at the top of the list.

Monday, October 16, 2017

Personalized Bible Reading Plan

I've tried many bible reading plans over the years, but eventually became somewhat frustrated with them all.

I began with the "read the bible in one year" plan, and then I tried out the "chronological bible in a year" plan. At some point I learned about reading 7 chapters of the New Testament each day to get through the NT in less than 2 months. I did that with the children for a few years when I first started following the Lord, and it was such a nice way to learn! At that same time I would read 11 chapters of the Old Testament each day and get through that in less than 3 months.

There were other plans in there, too, however like I said, all of the methods somewhat frustrated me. Why? Simple. Some chapters are really long and some chapters are really short!! The time spent reading was unpredictable. It's hard to schedule "unpredictable".

At some point it occurred to me that I did not have to follow someone else's plan or method; I could make up my own. Dah. This method has served me quite well for the last several years. Here it is.

  1. Determine the total number of pages in your bible. Some bibles start counting over when the NT begins. Some bibles include title pages, table of contents, blank pages, and more, in their numbering. Be sure to account for these things. The bible I read daily has 1,231 actual pages of text.
  2. Decide how long you want to take to get through the entire bible. During busy seasons you may plan for less time reading; during slow seasons you may plan for more time reading. The most important thing, as always, is to LIVE what you read! Some days you might even have to skip reading ... that's perfectly fine as long as you are LIVING it. If you are not going to live it out, you might as well throw it in the trash and spend your time doing something else.
    For the sake of this article, I'll give the examples of 1 year, 6 months, 3 months and 2 months. 
  3. Figure out how many days are in the time you chose. Round up or down in a way that makes sense to you.
    1 year = 365 days
    6 months x 30.5 = 183 days
    3 months x 30.5 = 92 days
    2 months x 30.5 days = 61 days. 
  4. Divide the total number of pages by the total number of days. Again, round up or down in a way that makes sense to you.
    1 year: 1231 pages / 365 days = 3.5 pages a day (some days read 3, some days read 4)
    6 months: 1231 pages / 183 days = 6.75 pages per day (most days read 7, some days read 6)
    3 months: 1231 pages / 92 days = 13.5 pages per day (some days read 14 pages, some days read 13)
    2 months: 1231 pages / 61 days = 20.25 pages per day (most days read 20 pages, some days read 21 pages)

That's it. So simple, right?

In this next section I'd like to share some of my most favorite tools. I'm doing something new on this blog ... I will include links to Amazon that are 'affiliate links' (SEE THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST!). If you click on the link and actually buy something, I will get a tiny monetary tip from Amazon. The products cost the same to you either way. Some of the links I share here will be Amazon affiliate links.

Number one of course: a bible. This is definitely a personal thing, but for **ME** I like to have wide margins with plenty of room to take notes. The bible I used has just that: wide margins. But what's even better is it has a lot of lined paper in the back for note-taking. If something needs more room than the wide margin provides, I just write the "note number" in the margin, and then I know there are notes in the back for that particular verse or passage.
My bible also has references in the middle column. I cannot speak positive or negative about these references because I ignore them.
In the back there are several really nice maps, a concordance, and blank pages with a letter at the top of each page, going through the whole alphabet. I have included a photo collage of all I mentioned here ... however the photos kind of came out 'blue', and one thing I REALLY LIKE about this bible is that instead of the pages being bright white, they are a soft, creamy, off-white. The second photo shows the same bible in different lighting, side-by-side.

Lap Table.
A strange study tool maybe? but I love it!!! This table fits in my chair, and my little chihuahua fits right underneath it on my lap.

Acid-free, archive quality.
My pen of choice: Pigma Micron, black
You may prefer to have other colors besides black ... maybe you like to color-code your notes? Different colors for different topics? I find this distracting, but you might not? Whatever your preference, the Pigma Micron is excellent, and comes in a variety of colors and tips sizes.

Straight edge.
This one is free. I use an old credit card to help make straight lines in my bible. Crooked lines look sloppy to me and are distracting. Straight lines are nice. Very nice.

Reference book.
I keep the "Holman Book of Biblical Charts, Maps, and Reconstructions" with my bible. This book has come in handy so many times!!! I'll include photos of the table of contents so you have a general idea of what it includes, however it will not do it justice. One thing I love is the information on biblical weights, money, measurements, etc. For instance, when the bible talks about an "hin" of oil, instead of just reading past it and not knowing, I stop, open up my handy book, and learn that an "hin" of oil is one gallon. I then write this next to the verse that talks about the "hin".
As with any book that claims to be a help, I'm always watching out for potential slants, bias statements, and/or assumptions. For that reason, I keep my reference books slim to none.

During seasons when I have time to read more in one sitting, I prefer to listen to the Old Testament on MP3 while reading along. I MUST read along, otherwise I'll start daydreaming. I use an old phone for the MP3 part, and then bluetooth it to a handy little speaker. This thing was pretty inexpensive and it's quite loud. Small and mighty. I like that a full charge will last several hours, and since it's bluetooth, I can use it with any device.

Bible app.
My favorite is Blue Letter Bible. Love it! I like to look up words and see how they are used in other verses and passages to get a fuller meaning of that particular word. This coupled with the Greek Old Testament (the Septuagint) really helps define a word in the way the bible intended it to be defined. I'll try to give a simple example ... one time when I was reading through Luke, this verse caught my attention:

Luke 1:5 There was in the days of Herod, the king of Judaea, a certain priest named Zacharias, of the course of Abia: and his wife was of the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elisabeth.

I thought, "Who was this man? What is the course of Abia?" etc. So, I opened up the Blue Letter Bible app, found the verse, and clicked on, "Interlinear". From there you are able to click on each word ... I clicked on, "of Abia" G7. It tells you that Abia/Abijah was a priest, the head of a priestly family whom when David divided the priests into 24 classes, Abia was the 8th order. You can see that it was used 3 times in the New Testament, all as the word, "Abia". Twice in Matthew 1:7, and once in the verse above.

Side note. Strong's definitions can sometimes be biased or twisted a little, so be careful. Always base the definition on what the bible says, not what Strong's says. In this case, it's a name, so I think we're safe to assume all is well.

Now look the same word up in the Old Testament. For this you have to use a Greek Septuagint that's coded with Strong's numbers. I USE THIS WEBSITE. Be sure the 'bible' is set to the Analytical Septuagint with Strong's numbers (which it should be automatically in the link I provided). Put your Strong's number in the search box. In this case, G7. You'll see that Abijah is in the Old Testament 24 times. Some of those will be referring to other men named Abijah, but many of them are referring to Zacharias' kin folk.

But, "It's all Greek to me!" For real. Well, so far the only way I've been able to get around that is to simply write down all of the verses references listed on the website linked above, look them up in my English bible, and read them.

From this we can learn more about who Zacharias was, and what he was doing in the temple. It's all so fascinating to me, and I believe it's important to know. My point: don't just passively read through. Look things up. And each time you read through, different things will stick out to you. I mean, how many times did I read through the NT before I thought to dig in to "the course of Abia"? I was always busy looking up other things, but on that particular time it was Abia's turn ;)

Some interesting words I've looked up this way: 'church' 'love' 'week' 'disciple' 'apostle' 'seed' etc. Keep in mind that some of the words must be looked up in their root form. And too, some of them will have different Strong's numbers for plural or for different spellings. Also, it is good to keep in mind that generally the first use of the word in the bible gives a good foundation for that word. Names are probably an exception :)

Ok, that's all of the bible study tips I have! I pray this was a blessing.

Monday, August 14, 2017

Forty years: Number ten

"Forty Years Series" [yes, I realize I'm no longer 40. I had to take a break from the blogs and such for a while, but after a season of rest, and several encouraging emails, I'm back ... but probably still will be sporadic in posting.], thought number ten ...
" covers a multitude of sins..."
No, this is not originally mine, but it does come to my mind quite often, in a variety of circumstances and settings. The depth of this phrase seems endless to me. What all does it mean? What all could it mean?

Though I could write on and on about these few simple words, I will only share a few basic thoughts.

It seems that when we truly love others (I mean TRULY love others, not the superficial, sappy, emotional, self-centered, circumstance-driven stuff, but the REAL stuff that is spoken of in 1 Corinthians 13, and what all the law and prophets hang on), we are able to overlook any wrong that they might have done to us and just simply be a blessing. Though they may not realize it at the time, if we just keep loving them with godly love, it will leave the doors open for reconciliation ... and isn't that the heart of it all? Reconciliation.

On that same train of thought, truly loving and leaving the door open for reconciliation might very well prevent them from further sin. I mean - if you repay evil for evil, hurt for hurt, you are provoking someone to sin even more. That is not love at all.